HALIKA DATE TAYO!

Dating is a form of courtship consisting of social activities done by two people with the aim of each assessing the others suitability as a partner in an intimate relationship or as a spouse . While the term has several meanings, it usually refers to the act of meeting and engaging in some mutually agreed upon social activity in public, together, as a couple. (origin : wikipedia)

Date (v) - to do an activity with someone you have might have a romantic relationship with : to go on a date or several dates with (someone). (origin : merriam-webster.com)

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DATE / DATING - malawak kasi itong salitang ito. I have my own definition and beliefs in terms of dating someone. I asked some of my friends about DATE at ito ang mga sagot nila. (sa baba)


GIRLS:

Marie Emmanuel: "Date is going out lang.. lagi akong nakkikipag date, sa family and friends. siguro ung iba kc may malice na ksma :)"

Bea Era: "To mingle? Alam nan natin kaibahan sa friends lang. Sgro pag we get too much excited about getting to know them more, or until the next date? Ewan ko lang."

KMC: "kasi to get to know the other person better or for fun lang."


BOYS:

Adrian G. : "Syempre kasi gusto mo yung girl haha tapos we stop dating a girl when we feel na walang pag asa."

Rob A: "I asked girls to go out with me if i like them. If nauulit ang paglabas namin  mga let's say more than 4-5 times. Iba na yun, we are investing for something serious na. Sa guys kasi if we dated girls once or twice lang, dalawa lang yan. First is we get what we want (you know what i mean) and 2 hindi siya interesting enough para maka-ulit pa."

Marco: "As an asshole, we date girls for you know after namin makuha yun, goodbye kiss na. As a gentleman, we date girls for serious relationship and nang-yayari lang yun if we repeatedly date the same girl more than the usual."


GAYS: 

Jhockah:  "Maraming klase and maraming meaning na pakikipag date. depende sa intention mo at sa taong gusto mong i-date. Ganoon lang."

Francis: "Kung lalaki ang date pakasaya lang. Kung gay naman kung madalas nauulit partnership/companionship na. Depende sa bakla beks."


SA AKIN kasi malaking DEPENDE salitang ito e. May tinatawag kasi tayong group date. Tadan! 

GROUP DATE

Ito yung group of friends kayong lumalabas para kumain, magkwentuhan at mag-inuman. Ano yan Boss depende kung sino ang nagyaya baka kasi you didn't know na bukod sayo may niyaya siyang iba at biglang naging group date na. :) Minumulat lang kita sa klase ng mga date. May tinatawag din kasi tayong FRIENDLY DATE.

FRIENDLY DATE

FRIENDLY DATE yan yung kahit ilang ulit kayong lumabas ay wala kayong ibang pinag-uusapan kung ang ibang tao at yung kanya kanya niyong buhay sa piling ng iba o buhay trabaho. Hindi ka tumatanging i-date siya kasi maganda yung companionship na binibigay niya sayo. Pag friendly date hindi yan nauulit ng twice a week. Kung maulit man yan ng twice a week, un at un pa din ang pinag uusapan niyo. Friendly date means you will not feel any malice from the person you date with. Regardless kung ka-kilala mo yan o hindi. You will feel it. Hindi yan katulad ng ROMANTIC DATE / EXCLUSIVELY DATING :)

EXCLUSIVELY DATING

ROMANTIC DATE / EXCLUSIVELY DATING - Ayan na yung sinasabi ng guys na they will not get along with the person na hindi talaga sila interested. Yan na din yung sinasabi ng mga girls na may malice - malice kasi hindi naman kayo lumalabas para kumain lang. Lumalabas para mas makilala ang isa't isa, dahil you like each other and/or you want to be with him/her. When to know if this is a romantic date? Simple, if he/she takes you out in different places na hindi usually pinupuntahan ng mag-kaibigan lang. Mararamadam mo all in plan lahat ng lakad nyo though kahapon ka lang niya tinanong na kung pwede kayong mag-date. You guys are exclusively dating na kung you see each other twice or thrice a week or 8-12times a month. Kung baga routine nyo na siya at sabi ng ni Ms. Bea Era "Pag nasa system mo na yung paglabas nyong dalawa." Of course yung actions nyo nag-iiba nag sisismula yan sa sabay lang kayong maglakad at habang tumatagal magkahawak na kayo ng kamay :) Mararamdam man mo yan Boss, Promise! Ibang usapan yan. Ngiting wagas ka nyan. (Kay tamis)  :)


**Wag kang matakot makipag date kasi doon mo masusukat ang sarili mo kung hanggang saan mo kayang makipag mingle at doon mo malalaman how likeable you are.  If na-reject ka, go on and ask someone else to date you. Wag kang maguguho Boss, try and try lang pero utang na loob wag ka naman umabuso. Wag lahat yayayain mong i-date ka. Ano may quota lang?

**Date is date. Minsan may malice minsan wala. You will know if the date is with romantic purpose if the person who ask you to go out, nagtanong ulit na kung pwede ba kayong lumabas dalawa habang hindi pa natatapos ang (current) date niyo. Amazing! :)**


P.S. pansinin mo mas matino sagot ng lalaki sa babae. haha :))